Trust is the pile for Love.

I often think that love must be surrounded by fireworks, "electric shock" feeling and all those dramatic scene. Until today I read an article. Love is not what I thought of then. Love is all about trust. Love is never about those dramatic scene. Even small little thing will able to increase the trust between both of you.

Look back, into your journey of love, have you been through a situation when your partner promises you to be on time back at home to accompany you, bring you out for dinner or even help you in certain things, but end up your partner not able to fulfill the promises that they make. Or even, they reach home at 2 or 3 in the morning which their earlier promise is to back at 9pm. How you feel then?

I believe that all of us did play the role of not fulfilling promises before. But do we put in efforts to show how much we really care for that promise and it is not forgotten on purpose.

All these small little things that one might forget will lead to distrust, and this is the main problem that cause all those "in a relationship" status change to "single". Thus, do not promise if you not able to meet the goal.

P/s : This is just what I feel. I am not here to ask you to break up or anything. Never ever advice your friends to break up with their love one. I bet I know how much it hurts when you find out someone advice your partner to leave you.

- Always Love Yourself More. -

H.E.A.R.T.S

Is just how much you place someone or something into your heart.

If they are at first place in you heart, you take them seriously.

You will never forget them

and even things that they need you to help out.

Diminishing Marginal Utility

Diminishing Marginal Utility is mainly talking bout ONE when having too much quantity of something they enjoy will affect to them not enjoying it as much anymore. This is the reason why Penang food are so DELICIOUS. This make me able to enjoy various Penang foods at once when I go back. What makes them so DELICIOUS.

1. The food portion are small.
2. The are seriously CHEAP as compared to KL.

I gain a lot of weight after I stay in KL for around 1 and a half years. The reasons behind it, was because foods here, in KL, are in very big portion and its consider very expensive to a girl that have been living in Penang for almost 21years. This is what I do, I seldom eat hawker food, I ate a lot of fast food especially the one that have famous French Fries, you know which fast food restaurant I am referring to, right, I don't want to mention name here. Is not good for pin pointing. HAHA.. This is the reason why I grew a lot. Second thing is, I can't really adapt to KL's hawker food, even if so happen I am out for hawker food I will force myself to finish the entire bowl because it is expensive for me to not finish it and it will cost me another RM5 or more if I am hungry again later. So, this shows that my utility goes down whenever I forcing myself to finish the entire portion of food. Therefore, KL's food can't be compared to the Penang's one. (=

The same thing happen to love as well. When you get the chance of staying together with your partners, then your utility of meeting him will diminish. Therefore, more argument are up, tired of getting together and end up in thing that everyone don't hope to happen on them. I am not referring to myself, I still manage to handle my utility (= For me, I advise that don't ever thinking of staying together is an easy thing. You have to be very well prepared in order for each other to adapt to your living style. You might be the one that used to stay up late, but your partner might not. As simple as this, it able to create a very serious argument as well.

No matter how a person is attach to their partner, they will always need time for their own activities as well. Even just a luncheon with friends or a hi-tea with bestie. This is enough to make a OVER-ATTACHED partners go crazy. So what you guys can do is, plan something that will be on same venue, same time, but have separate dates. Suddenly I sound so GURU.

I think I have to stop now, or else I will be more alike to love guru, which I don't like. =D

P/S: Don't act like you are so well experienced in love that you able to consult others in their LOVE's life. Outsider will never understand. Only things you can do is not CONSULTING but be a GOOD LISTENER!

SERIOUSLY I AM OK. NO WORRIES

Nerds..

This is one of my favorite candy. I think, it is still not available in Malaysia, but still can get it from our neighbor country, Singapore. It cost Singapore Dollar 2.30 per box. It is one of Nestle product as well.

Outside look

Likey the design of opening it.

*Pink side for Strawberry Flavor. Purple side for Grape Flavor.*

The Nestle's Logo. *Its blur because I using my laptop webcam.*

This is how it looks like.

PINKie, Strawberry flavor.

This is how purple, grape flavor look like.

The last step. How to enjoy it?

Mix Pinkie and Purpley together to fulfill the highest satisfaction.

It taste sour and sweet. ♥

Hope you like it. =D

What A Day.. =\

Its Saturday, I supposed to have my long sleep that I don't need any alarm to wake me up. Anyhow, my lovely baby woke me up to say goodbye, (not those goodbye that you thinking =P) he's leaving to work. I wake up after he left I unable to put myself into the sweet dreams anymore. Lately, I don't know why but I can't sleep well. Therefore, I decided to wake up to do my laundry. God knows this stupid lizard went into the washing machine and I think Mr. Lizard mostly likely not able to get himself out from my washing machine. (fyi, I SCARE of LIZARD)

First thing I do, I fill the washing machine with water leave the cover open. I see some hope in it. The lizard starts to move upward. But eventually, it didn't come out. I don't understand what this lizard is thinking.

Second thing I did, after the washing machine is full with water, I turn on the washing mode. The machine start spinning, the lizard moving more upward. I felt so relieve to see that. God knows, he slipped and fall into the spinning water. GOD!!

I surrender and decided to start on my assignments while waiting for this stupid lizard to get off from the washing machine. I went to check out again after hours, the lizard gone. Wooohooo.. I am so excited I bring all my clothes and start putting into the washing machine, water is filled, soap is in, machine start spinning, everything goes fine.

After soaking the clothes, I were there to drain the water. I saw that stupid lizard is still in the machine. I am shock and I don't know what to do. I find my life so stuck up. Luckily, I am not those type that will scream when I see something scary, at least not for lizards and cockroaches.

Miserable Saturday.

Anyway, I will be going back to Nilai to celebrate aunt's Mother's Day. This will make my day a little bit better. Woohoooo..

The Path Not Taken

Quite a long while I think of having a proper blog. *Those previous one not counted* Have been discussing with one of my bestie whether to blog or not to. After dilemma-ing for so long, I have decided to squeeze my brain juice to operate and maintain this blog.

Before start up, I have these few things pop up in my thinking.

Do I really need a blog?

What a blog can actually do for me, beside post up my writing and work as a PUBLIC DIARY.

Anyway, after reading some of my friends comment, I realized that blog do really help people improve in writing. Whether, be it emo piece of shit, happy lovey dovey story or even point of view in certain things that happen around or on me and etc. *practise makes perfect*

Therefore, everyone that are reading my blog. I urge you that this blog is completely managed by me, myself, and no other. Thus, if anything offended you, feel free to leave. Otherwise, please leave all "narrow way of thinking", judgement and prejudices before coming in. If not everyone are welcome. ((=